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10 Perfect First Sex Toys

When it comes to buying your first sex toy, it’s important to think about what types of sensations you enjoy during sex with your partner or while pleasuring yourself. Do you like clitoral stimulation, deep penetration, stroking motions, vaginal, anal, all of the above? Take these things into consideration while checking out the 10 product below that could be great for you!


#1 – Little Flirt by Tantus

little-flirtThis little butt plug is perfect for a first-timer. It’s only about the size of a finger, making it just the right size to see if you like anal play with a toy, without getting in over your head. Plus the lower price point makes this toy super approachable.

#2 – Lemon by Tenga

lemon - tengaThe Lemon clitoral vibrator is one of the best first sex toys you can buy. This Japanese design its very small, making it easy to hold in your hand and even easier to store away when not in use. While this vibe is little, don’t let that fool you. It has some power behind it! 




#3 – Mio by Je Joue

mio-2This ring might be a little more pricey, but the cost is SO worth the experience. This vibrating c-ring is an amazing sex toy for couple’s who don’t want to make a big production out of using a toy, for someone who has not used a c-ring before, and for people looking to bring just the right amount of extra something into the bedroom! PS – it’s rechargeable!


#4 – Egg by Tenga

eggLess than $10. Disposable. Amazing feeling! This egg-shaped penis toy works to slip over the penis and be used as a stroker! The inside of the egg features a different pleasurable pattern per egg, offering lots of different combinations to try! And because its so affordable, you’ll be able to!




#5 – Acute by Tantus

acuteAs far as dildos go, this one is a very approachable option. It stands at only 5-inches and is curved for easy insertion. The flared base makes it great for vaginal or anal play, and the slim diameter makes it perfect for someone wanting a do-it-all first dildo!



#6 – Amorino by Fun Factory

amorinoThis internal and external vibrator is the perfect way to experiment with what you like in a toy! This small but mighty vibe stimulates the clitoris head as well as the clitoris legs (which are just as sensitive) with the removable, and reconfigurable yellow band that goes around the vibrator. The easy to use buttons and rechargeable battery make it perfect for a first vibrator!



#7 – Helix Syn by Aneros

helixIf you are someone with a prostate who wants to dabble in anal play, this is by far the best place to start! This very slim anal plug works to slowly stimulate the prostate, becoming more and more pleasurable the more you relax. This un-intrusive plug sits between the cheeks comfortably, and can be easily removed by the plastic finger-loop!



#8 – Doggy Rider by Liberator

Looking for something that’s less of a sex toy, and more of a “sex enhancer”? Then the Doggy Rider is perfect for you! It slips under the torso of the ‘receiver’ to give the ‘giver’ better leverage and more control! The soft pad and sturdy handles ensure everyone has a great time!


#9 – RO-80mm Bullet by Rocks-Off

bulletThis little bullet vibrator is perfect for a beginner to sex toys! The simple controls provide pleasurable vibes and patterns that are sure to satisfy. Use it on the clitoris, nipples, or anywhere that vibrations feels good to you! Plus its so affordable that it’s a very easy choice!



#10 – Sutil

sutilNo matter how old you are, what activity you’re using it for, or what toy you’re using it with – Sutil is the perfect lube. This water-based personal lubricant is thicker than most water-based solutions, and is ideal for vaginal and anal intercourse alike. This lube can also be used with silicone sex toys! There’s no situation where this lube wouldn’t work!




vibrant-lets-talk-about-sex-tshirt_grandeStill not ready to buy your first sex toy? No worries! You can always support Vibrant and Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains by buying a fun t-shirt until you’re ready to make your toy purchase!!

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The Vibrant Staff writers are a group of sex-positive women employed by Vibrant. Our contributors are passionate about advocacy, women's rights, relationships, and sharing their experiences with you!

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The Vibrant Staff writers are a group of sex-positive women employed by Vibrant. Our contributors are passionate about advocacy, women's rights, relationships, and sharing their experiences with you!

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