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Ten Perfect First Sex Toys

10 Perfect First Sex Toys

Buying your first sex toy can be intimidating; luckily, these cute little toys are anything but! Before you get started, it’s important to think about what types of sensations you enjoy during sex with your partner or while pleasuring yourself. Do you like clitoral stimulation, deep penetration, stroking motions, vaginal, anal, all of the above? Take these things into consideration while checking out ten perfect first sexy toys below that could be great for you!

#1 – Little Flirt by Tantus

little-flirtThis little butt plug is perfect for a first-time sex toy shopper. It’s only about the size of a finger, making it just the right size to find out if you like anal play with a toy, without getting in over your head. Plus, the lower price point makes this toy super approachable.

#2 – Midori by Tenga

Midori by Tenga: Perfect First Sex ToyThe Midori clitoral vibrator is one of the best first sex toys you can buy. The Japanese design is very small, making it easy to hold in your hand and even easier to store away when not in use. While this vibe is little, don’t let that fool you. It has some power behind it! 




#3 – Mio by Je Joue

Perfect First Sex Toys: Mio by JeJoueThis ring might be a little more pricey, but the cost is SO worth the experience. This vibrating c-ring is an amazing sex toy for couples who don’t want to make a big production out of using a toy, for someone who has not used a c-ring before, and for people looking to bring just the right amount of extra something into the bedroom. PS – it’s rechargeable!


#4 – Egg by Tenga

Perfect First Sex Toys: Tenga EggFirst off, this cutie is less than $10, disposable, and you get to choose from several different textures. This egg-shaped penis toy slips over the penis, and voila, it’s a stroker! And because it’s so affordable, you could try a variety of the different textures depending on your mood.




#5 – Acute by Tantus

Perfect First Sex Toys: Tantus AcuteAs far as dildos go, this one is a very welcoming, friendly option. It stands only five inches tall and is curved for easy insertion. The flared base makes it great for vaginal or anal play, and the smaller diameter makes it easy for first-time dildo users! Plus, you can just throw it in the dishwasher once you’re finished.



#6 – Amorino by Fun Factory

Perfect First Sex Toys: Amorino by Fun FactoryThis internal and external vibrator is the perfect way to experiment with what you like in a toy! The small but mighty vibe stimulates the clitoris head as well as the clitoris legs (which are just as sensitive) with the removable and reconfigurable yellow band that goes around the vibrator. The easy to use buttons and rechargeable battery make it ideal for a first vibrator purchase.




#7 – Helix Syn by Aneros

Perfect First Sex Toys: Helix Syn by AnerosIf you are someone with a prostate who wants to dabble in anal play, this is by far the best place to start! This very slim anal plug works to slowly stimulate the prostate, becoming more and more pleasurable the more you relax. The un-intrusive plug sits between the cheeks comfortably and can be easily removed by the plastic finger-loop. The hands-free design means you’ll be free to experiment with other pleasure zones while you use this fun toy.



#8 – Doggy Rider by Liberator

Perfect First Sex Toys: Doggy Ridger by LiberatorLooking for something that’s less of a sex toy, and more of a “sex enhancer”? Then the Doggy Rider is perfect for you! It slips under the torso of the ‘receiver’ to give the ‘giver’ better leverage and more control! The soft pad and sturdy handles ensure everyone has a great time.


#9 – RO-80mm Bullet by Rocks-Off

Perfect First Sex Toys: RO80MM Bullet Vibrator by Rocks OffThis little bullet vibrator is ideal for a beginner to sex toys! The simple controls provide pleasurable vibes and patterns that are sure to satisfy. Use it on the clitoris, nipples, or anywhere that vibrations feel good to you! The affordable price point makes this a straightforward choice.



#10 – Sutil Luxe Lube

Perfect First Sex Toys: Sutil Luxe LubeNo matter how old you are, what activity you’re using it for, or what toy you’re using it with – Sutil is the perfect lube. This water-based personal lubricant is thicker than most water-based solutions and is ideal for vaginal and anal intercourse alike. This lube can also be used with silicone sex toys! There’s no situation where this lube wouldn’t work.




Perfect First Sex Toys: Vibrant TeeStill not ready to purchase your first sex toy? No worries! You can always support Vibrant and Planned Parenthood of the Rocky Mountains by buying a fun t-shirt until you’re ready to make your toy purchase!!

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The Vibrant Staff writers are a group of sex-positive cis women and queer folks employed by Vibrant. Our contributors are passionate about educational advocacy, sexual autonomy and freedom, healthy relationships, and sharing their experiences with you!

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The Vibrant Staff writers are a group of sex-positive cis women and queer folks employed by Vibrant. Our contributors are passionate about educational advocacy, sexual autonomy and freedom, healthy relationships, and sharing their experiences with you!

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