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How to Build Intimacy Using Sex Toys

How to Build Intimacy Using Sex Toys

Intimacy is central to any relationship. Many would argue that without intimacy, you cannot have a successful partnership with another person. Being intimate can take on a number of different forms. It can be sharing in deep personal conversation with the one you love and trust, it can be curling up and getting that snuggle time that you so crave, and it can also mean deepening the sexual bond that you and your partner share. Adding sex toys to your repertoire in the bedroom is a fun and easy way to help build an even deeper sense of intimacy and satisfaction in your sex life. And it’s just good fun! Here’s how to get started…

Talk About It!

As with almost anything in a relationship, the first step is to start up a conversation with your loved one. Many people are intimidated to suggest new things in the bedroom because they fear how the other person will react. Often, they are worried that their ideas will be rejected, or that their partner will be offended by the suggestion. The success of any conversation about your relationship usually has a lot to do with how it’s presented. If you come to the table with a new idea that you find exciting and positive, it is likely that your partner will respond favorably. Most people are eager to try new things sexually but are sometimes hesitant to talk about it. Making the first move and suggesting a toy will open up a line of communication between you and your partner. Intimacy relies heavily on communication, so don’t ever be afraid to talk to your partner about trying something new. You may be surprised to learn that they have had similar thoughts and desires as well!

Choosing a Toy

Choosing a toy can be a daunting task. There are so many fun, candy-colored, shiny options to choose from that it can be difficult to decide what the right fit is for you and your partner. Some of them are so pretty you don’t know whether to use them or simply place them amongst your bookshelf décor! Thankfully the professionals at Vibrant are here to help you! If ever have any questions, or just need a little hand holding in making your decision, you can contact us at help@bevibrant.com, or chat with us on our website at any time!

  • For those engaging sexual play involving a penis and a vagina, a great option to try is We-Vibe Sync. This sleek toy is worn inside the vagina and produces simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation, as well as pleasurable vibrations for your partner! Its ergonomic design fits snugly against the body and ensures it won’t get in the way.
  • For those who are engaging in sexual play with a vagina and vagina, the Feeldoe is a great option to try. This toy is worn inside the vagina and allows you to penetrate your partner (like a strap-on minus the straps!) while you both enjoy the vibrations.
  • For penis and penis sexual play you might want to consider the Pure Wand. This shiny toy allows has a curved design that allows you to stimulate the prostate for intense orgasms. Don’t forget the lube, our favorite is Uberlube.

Deepening Your Bond

Many studies have shown that couples who try new things together have longer lasting and more satisfying relationships. When we try new things, our bodies release serotonin (feel good chemicals) and adrenaline (excitement chemicals). Couples who share in new adventures together bond over the experience and it helps to deepen intimacy. Bringing a toy into your routine will help to open up your sex life to new possibilities. You might learn something new about what you like, or what your partner likes. You may be surprised by the way the toys can enhance your pleasure, or at very least you might get a good laugh out of it!

 

Uberlube
Uberlube
Sync by We-Vibe
Sync by We-Vibe
Pure Wand
Pure Wand
Feeldoe
Feeldoe

Kendall Lambrecht

Erotic enthusiast. Future clinical sexologist. Culinary mastermind. Making the world a more beautiful, sexy, delicious place to be!

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Kendall Lambrecht

Erotic enthusiast. Future clinical sexologist. Culinary mastermind. Making the world a more beautiful, sexy, delicious place to be!

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Facebook: facebook.com/kendall.lambrecht

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