Despite what you may think, you don’t need someone else in order to have an incredible sex life.
There are plenty of self-stimulating options for single women that will inspire you to gift yourself a much better solo sex life this Valentine’s Day. We’ve listed a few of our faves below.
Short Erotica Novels
If you’re lucky, you might have the chance to carve out half an hour before bed to crack open a book. If time is of the essence and you’d like to be sent floating off on cloud nine properly, give short story erotica a try.
Check out the endless supply of ten-page erotica shorts for every kink imaginable, some of which can be downloaded onto a smartphone or tablet for immediate access. E-books are also a great way to keep your interests private for taboo titles, and the best part about erotica is that you can open yourself up to the best sex scenarios and roleplay anytime, anywhere.
Phone Sex Chatlines
Thousands of phone sex lines welcome all genders, often making it 100% free for women to join. If you join as a phone sex operator yourself, you can earn extra cash while getting your own fantasy needs met, and should the person on the other end say something you don’t like, you can hang up at any point.
Nearly all of these phone lines offer connection assistance as well so others can’t see the phone number you’re calling from and have no way of contacting you unless you decide to accept calls.
Splurge-Worthy Sex Toys
Thankfully it’s so easy to find fantastic body-safe sex toys these days, and most are pretty affordable, but there are certain sex toys worth spending a pretty penny on. The Doxy Die Cast Wand Vibrator, nJoy Fun Wand, and Ditto Vibrating Butt Plug are premium quality sex toys that definitely qualify as a treat.
Both the Doxy and Ditto vibrators have multi-speed motor functions, and the Fun Wand was designed with graduated bulbs to gratify your G-spot and provide sensational anal playtime. Because of the extended handles of both vibrators and the hands-free design of the butt plug you can easily pleasure all of your erogenous zones without the assistance of a lover.
Most of the pornography you find online can best be described as “punishment sex” in which the female actresses are ridiculously mistreated, and the scene immediately ends once the male costar climaxes (all over her face of course).
While lots of folks enjoy a bit of rough sex now and again, mainstream porn can’t hold a candle to the feminist, x-rated cinema around these days. Subscribing to a woman- and queer-friendly pornographic site is another way you can take charge of your sexual happiness.
Not only would you be supporting the starlets and producers of the films, but they are also shot with empowering angles and sometimes the woman’s viewpoint for a change. Further, what you’ll find is the folks in these films come in different shapes, sizes, and nationalities to truly reflect the world we live in and how we see ourselves, which can be a massive turn on.
Originally published in 2018; updated February 1, 2019.
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