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How to Choose a Harness

How to Choose a Harness

Whether you’re someone with a vagina, or a penis – are buying your first harness or are a strap-on expert, this article will help you to understand what a harness is and how to choose the best one for you!

What is a harness?

Harnesses are made to help you wear dildos and other sex toys. With a pocket on the crotch, usually shaped as an “O-ring,” harnesses are designed to hold a dildo in place while you bump n’ grind. Go hands-free from your favorite toys and let your bodies do the talking.

Where do I start?

Finding the right harness or strap-on is all about finding the fit and style that is most comfortable for you.

Spareparts JoqueThe SpareParts Joque is a great first harness for its versatile use. The Joque can accommodate both single and double dildos, plus it has internal pockets for mini bullet vibrators. It also has an adjustable belt and leg straps, giving you room to try different fits.

Deuce SparepartsPeople with penises will love the SpareParts Deuce. It has a breathable pouch that can comfortably fit the testicles, or the penis as well. Use with a dildo while your penis takes a breather, or slide your penis through its second opening for double the fun.

Tantus Bend Over Beginner KitFor an all-in-one package, try the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit. It comes with a Silk Small or Silk Medium dildo, plus a bullet vibrator, giving you all the tools you need for a sexy good time. It also comes with an additional O-ring for when/if you’re ready to move up to a larger dildo.

What else should I know?

Thigh Harness SportsheetsHarnesses are also a great way to switch up angles and positions, especially for people with mobile disabilities. The Sportsheets Thigh Harness lets your partner grind on your thigh, making it perfect for those who may need to sit during sex.

Tombio SparepartsPeople of all genders and sexualities can play with harnesses and dildos. In fact, harnesses can be an important part of gender expression. The Spareparts Bella comes in beautiful lace, with a cheeky bow in the back. The Spareparts Tomboi come in a no-fuss style, cut just like boxer briefs. No matter how you express yourself, Vibrant has a harness style that is right for you.

For more harness options, check out bevibrant.com!

Vibrant Staff

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