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Why We Love Mutual Masturbation (And You Should Too)!

Self-pleasure via solo masturbation is fun no doubt, but mutual masturbation can take your sex to hotter heights than ever before. If you’ve never heard of mutual masturbation, let us tell you the reasons why we love it. We’re confident they’ll convince you to appreciate it too.

Reason #1 – Mutual masturbation satisfies the voyeur that resides inside of us all.

If you’ve ever watched and enjoyed pornography, NEWSFLASH!  You’re a voyeur to some degree.

Watching others pleasure themselves is extraordinarily arousing.  When it’s someone you can physically connect with (as opposed to the starlet on the big screen) it makes the experience more pleasurable on many levels.

Your senses go haywire from sights, sounds, smells, not to mention that feeling of being watched yourself! It’s an exciting change of pace compared to playing in the dark under the covers alone. 😉

Reason #2 – Mutual masturbation creates a beautiful sense of “normalcy” for all involved.

There are so many myths about masturbation that have been crushed over time, not to mention proven health benefits for solo pleasure. Still, most of us still feel embarrassed about doing it. Masturbating in front of your partner can prove beneficial in so many ways as well.

They can watch the method you use to reach climax and repeat the same pattern on you in the future.

TNJoy Pure Wandhis creates a learning opportunity for you both. Try using a versatile sex toy like nJoy’s Pure Wand.  Its simple and unique two bulb design makes it easy to visualize a partner during both G-spot and P-spot play.

 

Reason #3 -Kinky sex positions are endless when it comes to simultaneous self-pleasure.

There are a few ways to watch your partner pleasure themselves that you’ve probably never considered. These ones can be particularly devilish to try:

1 – Sitting face to face: Eye contact is everything when it comes to mutual masturbation.

Position yourselves in chairs facing one another or one person in a chair while the other lies on the bed. Make eye contact if you want to experience a mental and emotional connection. Watching your partner orgasm can be orgasmic in its own right.

2 – Sit back to chest: In this position, only one person at a time will be able to stimulate themselves digitally, but the person seated behind their partner can watch as their partner touches themselves.

Doxy Wand VibratorThey can also reach around to initiate digital stimulation as well. This would be an incredible time to introduce sex toys such as powerful vibrators, dildos, or masturbation devices for either person to control. Tantus’ Echo is a favorite for dildo lovers. With its ridges and optional vibration, penetration becomes even more sensual. For external stimulation, try the Doxy Massage Wand Vibrator.

3 – Get a little kinky and incorporate elements of BDSM: One partner could be restrained with silk ties or rope while the other person stimulates their partner and themselves with a sex toy.

To put it bluntly, masturbating in front of your sexual partner while they do the same makes you feel less “weird”. It’s reassuring to feel you aren’t the only one that touches themselves sexually.

Mutual masturbation can help you let go of feelings of shame surrounding your sexual pleasure, and it also helps to strengthen the bond you have with your partner. Who wouldn’t want to celebrate that?!

Amanda Sovago-Royal

Amanda is a Sex-Positive Blogger, Vlogger, and Professional Adult Novelties Reviewer for DirtyMilfNextDoor, a Youtube channel & sex blog she created to shamelessly discuss the realities of Sex, Kink, and Relationships for the millennial woman.

You can follow her work by subscribing to her YouTube Channel, and following her on Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest.

Amanda Sovago-Royal

Amanda is a Sex-Positive Blogger, Vlogger, and Professional Adult Novelties Reviewer for DirtyMilfNextDoor, a Youtube channel & sex blog she created to shamelessly discuss the realities of Sex, Kink, and Relationships for the millennial woman.

You can follow her work by subscribing to her YouTube Channel, and following her on Twitter, Instagram, and Pinterest.

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